So, I'm gonna be changing my name here on the Fediverse to follow my intended new legal name (yes, I'm changing it again)... You'll eventually see me re-follow ya'll under my new name - I'm going with Lucy, with the new handle @lucyllewy
19.3.2023 21:58So, I'm gonna be changing my name here on the Fediverse to follow my intended new legal name (yes, I'm changing it again)......I'm feeling the love of late! So many good things and wholesome goodness happening around me. 💜 :pleading_hearts:
19.3.2023 17:27I'm feeling the love of late! So many good things and wholesome goodness happening around me. 💜 :pleading_hearts:This is a really good think piece with humour by YouTuber Emma Thorne https://youtu.be/vhVW66WWv94
19.3.2023 01:22This is a really good think piece with humour by YouTuber Emma Thorne https://youtu.be/vhVW66WWv94#xpSorry @lowqualityfacts I forgot the xp hashtag so deleted and reposted just as you clicked favourite
18.3.2023 19:19Sorry @lowqualityfacts I forgot the xp hashtag so deleted and reposted just as you clicked favouriteThey’ve rebooted challenge anneka! I loved it as a kid! https://youtu.be/74aSE5mZu-Q
18.3.2023 19:18They’ve rebooted challenge anneka! I loved it as a kid! https://youtu.be/74aSE5mZu-Q#xpexcept that it is for a partner where you feel compersion instead of channeling it into jealousy or worse 💜
And now to some recent joy that prompted me to write this: Earlier this year I had the most euphoric compersion I’ve received to date. Even though we’re not partners (also in the circumstance group, like the person I quoted above 🥺), their joy has been my joy, and I’m totally here for it! I’m new to opening myself up to such feelings so this was wonderful to experience. (3/3)
18.3.2023 14:17except that it is for a partner where you feel compersion instead of channeling it into jealousy or worse 💜And now to some recent joy...A good friend (in the circumstance group 🥺) that I talk to about these experiences and other poly thoughts describes friend-related compersion as “When something positive happens to a friend, be it something platonic or sexual or romantic, we're usually happy about it, happy that they're happy.” And that is exactly what it is like for a poly relationship’s compersion too, (2/3)
18.3.2023 14:17https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/what-is-compersion-and-how-to-practice-feeling-empathy-instead-of-jealousyA good friend (in the...Have you heard of compersion?
You probably get compersion even if you’re not poly. For example I get it for my partners, people I would love to have as my partners but circumstances prevent it, my friends, and even people I don’t know very well but have interacted with to the degree that they’re good acquaintances. If you’re not poly, you probably do still feel compersion without knowing that’s what it is.
There’s a good explanation in this article that covers polyamory: (1/3)
18.3.2023 14:17Have you heard of compersion?You probably get compersion even if you’re not poly. For example I get it for my partners, people I would...I just realised I didn’t set up moa.party again after moving away from mastodon.lol 🤦♀️
18.3.2023 02:04I just realised I didn’t set up moa.party again after moving away from mastodon.lol 🤦♀️Soo… I’m not entirely sure that the back and joints clinic is helping. My back hurts more today than it has since I was discharged from hospital after emergency admission for the severe pain. Ho hum.
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So… if I can get all the ducks in a row in time I’m gonna be copresenting a talk at Linux App Summit in Brno in April! I’ve got funding all sorted so it’s just a case of logistics now. Oh and helping to write the talk.
18.3.2023 01:05So… if I can get all the ducks in a row in time I’m gonna be copresenting a talk at Linux App Summit in Brno in April! I’ve got...This is definitely one for @ClarusPlusPlus :giggle: :fluffyhugs: :blahajHeart: :BlahajHug:
I wonder if any of these can be used in her JRPG? 😝
17.3.2023 16:37This is definitely one for @ClarusPlusPlus :giggle: :fluffyhugs: :blahajHeart: :BlahajHug:I wonder if any of these can be used in her JRPG?...I loved Heroes way back in the dark ages when it was first aired. God, I'm such an old 😭 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hpSxuQA2qdQ
16.3.2023 23:57I loved Heroes way back in the dark ages when it was first aired. God, I'm such an old 😭 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hpSxuQA2qdQVia my "Facebook Memories" notification
16.3.2023 23:33Via my "Facebook Memories" notificationSubtoot. Those who know, know.
https://nitter.mint.lgbt/diddledani/status/1636457274200801281?s=20
16.3.2023 20:09Subtoot. Those who know, know.https://nitter.mint.lgbt/diddledani/status/1636457274200801281?s=20I refuse to say who these people are, but they probably know. :pleading_hearts: :fluffyhugs: 🥵
(For reference I consider myself switchy)
16.3.2023 18:29I refuse to say who these people are, but they probably know. :pleading_hearts: :fluffyhugs: 🥵 (For reference I consider myself switchy)So, on the Hellsite people are doing at the start of the pandemic vs now comparisons. Here is mine:
The only pic I have of me near the start of the pandemic, vs now, and extra credit for including June last year at trans+ pride.
16.3.2023 18:21So, on the Hellsite people are doing at the start of the pandemic vs now comparisons. Here is mine:The only pic I have of me near the start...Or maybe I'm inferring too much, because I am an old romantic 😝
16.3.2023 18:13Or maybe I'm inferring too much, because I am an old romantic 😝Subtoot:
I'm gonna have to badger a certain someone later to get all the details on their lunch today, because it sounds like something good is happening and I think my compersion quota is gonna go off the chart sky-high today :blahajHearts: 🥰 💜 Love that for them!
16.3.2023 18:12Subtoot:I'm gonna have to badger a certain someone later to get all the details on their lunch today, because it sounds like something...⬆️
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